Infinite Love

After the hectic Day of work, i just want to spend a couple of hours with you. This hour of togetherness makes me forget everything and takes me to a different Universe entirely. The moment i enter my home, your true Smile of Happiness just to see me is priceless. Your Smile makes me feel i am very special and reassures me that there is someone genuinely looking forward to see me. Just a Smile tells me millions of words about how much you love. 

I am talking about my niece. Such a beautiful little angel she is. She is just 2.5 years. She runs to me as fast as she can calling me with a magical smile the moment she sees me. She demands my full attention and i would rather be with her completely than anywhere else. She tells me about how much she searched for me whole day and she knew that i will come and get chocolates. 

She wants to play with me as if i am her doll. She calls me her doll and wants to make my hairs the way her mother makes her. she wants to feed me food and  tell me story and make me sleep. She will not tolerate anyone talking bad about me or scolding me. she goes to an extent of hitting others who make fun of me. Her innocence and the infinite Love she shows has no match. I even forget i am older and she is just a small kid. All i want to be her doll and let her play with me. 

I don't remember any problem in the Life. All the pain just fades away. Heart and soul fills with only happiness. Sometimes she even waits till late night just to play with me. She wants me to be in front of her eyes till she falls asleep. The Trust she shows is unbeatable, no matter who says what about me, she backs me up. The kind of Trust and Love kids show are truly amazing. She loves to pose for the camera. She is ready as soon as the camera ready.

As soon as she wakes up, she will come in search of me and wakes me up like i am small kid. She just wants to sit on my lap quietly. She feels the comfort and safety in my hands. She holds me so tight, she doesn't want me let go to work. I call her the princess. She flaunts and tells everyone that she is my princess and takes pride in that. When i am not there, she pretend to talk to me in a dummy phone. if she gets hold off real one, she will find out the contacts and call me by clicking at my photo.

Every second of togetherness with you is something which i do not want to miss at any cost.

The most loving place is my house which lets me spend my time together with you.

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My House Journey

The Journey which i am going to talk about is not to reach any geographical location. This Journey of mine is more of my mind exploring its new potentials. Being a Leo, most of the times, i am extra confident. Yes extra confident, not over confident. Always confident in education, career, family, love and relationship. When it comes to start something new, before even knowing what all it takes to make it happen, i just feel confident that i will do it no matter what it takes. Along with this confidence, i will be in a fear of not able to achieve what i started. This fear of failure is the main reason most of the people are scared of starting anything new. For me this fear helps me in retaining my focus till the end goal. This fear is helpful once started a new life. But how do i overcome this fear which stops the decision itself.

Let me take an example. I wanted to buy a new house. I don't have sufficient money to buy in one shot. I was not aware of Home Loan process and complications. I was not aware of the legal documents required and verified before buying the House. 

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Now comes the Fear of Failure. Failures are nothing but not able to buy the house within planned schedule or being cheated or losing money or spending too much. Steps to overcome the initial fear is define the Target Date to achieve your Goal. As most of my decisions, i will look for a special occasion. This time i targeted my birthday. I had 2 month time. Second step is  to announce your target and the deadline. Once it is done, the same fear which is stopping from starting will help in executing what i have started. 

Now while achieving the target within the time frame. I followed a simple flow by breaking up the journey into sub tasks and linking each sub task as the trigger and gating item to the next task. Such as choosing on the location, fixing on the budget, options of the bank for Loan, deciding on the house and documentation.

Everything i mentioned till now is just planning. Planning is as important as execution. Execution without plan leads to dead ends sometimes. Irrespective of best planning, there will be issues and hurdles while actual execution. So anticipate the issues and include some alternate options in every sub task. Issues which i faced were i had to compromise on the location which increased 1 km distance from the ideal requirement and increase in budget to certain extent. Option of Bank changed to meet the deadline. So always be flexible to adapt to the situation and modify or update the plan without losing track of end goal.

Most of these things may be routine and can be achieved by most of you. For me, it was more of journey of my mind because every process and interaction with strangers and decision making with limited knowledge and resources is the work of mind. 

And I achieved my target on my birthday and during the same time i had to start my journey to a different geographical location as well, which i did successfully. Journey started in a mind with a thought and going on in my new House.