MultiTasking or Pipelining?

Very first thing I want to clarify to the readers is, that this blog is not related to any software or programming. so anyone and every one can go ahead reading.

As most of us are aware, multitasking is nothing doing multiple tasks simultaneously. Sometimes you might have thought this person does awesome multitasking. Or someone would have appreciated you saying, you are brilliant at multitasking. 

Do you think you are good at multitasking?

We will come back to this question again after few minutes. Let us take an example of a person who thinks he/she is amazing at multitasking. He can talk to someone in phone, while driving listening to music. You might be thinking, even i can do that. wait for a while. He can also listen to music, respond to his emails, Plan for something simultaneously. Again you are thinking you can also do that. He can watch Television, work on Laptop, eat food, talk to friends simultaneously. Now, you might be feeling, this is the easiest thing anyone can do.

These are the simple examples which looks like being done simultaneously. My question is if it is being done simultaneously How effective they are ? Are those really a multitasking?

There is a saying "You cannot sail in two boats simultaneously" and people use this to give analogy for various things. If you are managing multiple businesses or having a part time work or involving in extra curricular activities, people around you use this saying. Most of the times, we respond saying we are very good in multitasking.

How does our Brain understands multitasking? 

The inputs to our Brain are from our senses and our major senses are vision, sound and touch. and the outputs are movements of locomotive organs and sound responses. Even though our eyes can see thousands of things simultaneously, only those we focus on will be fed as an information to our Brain. In the same way, a camera can keep watching all the objects, but it only captures those when it is clicked. when we are trying to focus on multiple tasks simultaneously, it is the information being fed one after the other to the brain and Brain responds based on the priority. If the task 1 needs some time to process, it responds for task 2 in the mean time it is processing task 1. This process is called Pipelining. This happens so fast, we don't feel the sequential process looks like simultaneous.

Most of the successful Serial Entrepreneurs and Multiple Business Founders are very good in this Pipelining process. They know which product is matured to go to market, which company is ready to enter stock exchange, which company is under development. Everything is assigned and defined its timeline. Everything is pipelined, so that it can be executed sequentially without break.

Let me comeback to the question again

Are you good at multitasking or Pipelining?

 

Change the Ringtone

Yeah, I know the title is catchy enough to let you spend a couple of minutes of your time in this blog.

Nowadays, most of our mobile phones will be in silent mode always, because we are totally occupied with lots of meetings, discussions and work. But still we find some people mobiles ringing with a very loud and crazy ringtones when we are deeply involved in some kind of task. 

Imagine you are at your work place or traveling somewhere, suddenly you hear a ringtone. It may be a classic mobile Ringtone or Service providers ring tone or some television show music or latest movie song or some album song. If we are familiar with the ringtone or its funny, we will have a smile for a while.

If the same ringtone is heard every one hour, while you are doing something, we will get irritated with the same ringtone which made us smile right? If not some one else mobile ringtone, what if it is our own ringtone, How many days we will have the same ringtone?

Let me come to the point, what if our daily routine has become so monotonous? Daily same work, same mails, same coding, same testing, same designs, same place! How to break this monotony and keep up that smile?

Simple change the ringtone....

The purpose of ringtone is to let us know that we got a call. Lets the purpose get served by changing the ringtone, having a mixture of silent mode and ringing mode.

In our work or daily activities also, make sure the purpose is served by changing the methods of doing it. You might be in the field of selling and daily you will be selling stuff. Just make sure you are able to sell things, but in different styles and ways. You might be the hardcore programmer, writing hundreds of lines of code daily, make sure your code works, but while coding use different styles, different editors, different IDE's. 

I am sure whatever work you are doing day in and day out, you can find out doing things in creative and entertaining way.

Just Change the Ringtone and break the monotony.

Atth 2012

You might have been to events like international conferences, product launch, workshops, Trainings, game shows, fests, concerts and many more.
Have you ever attended any event which will include all the above?
Does such events exists?
If it does, will it retain its core purpose of the event?

Is ATTH an Event?
Does it consists of all or monotonous event dedicated to one group of people?

When i heard about ATTH and checked out its website http://atth.org/
Which says "The Social Entrepreneurship Forum" and a maiden event for the youth to explore their social entrepreneur inside them.

I had a few queries like 
How the event will be?
What will be new in it?
How is it going to be different?

Before taking up a decision to register for the event and attend the event, we should be sure of every rupee is worth. There are few things which i discovered that help us to make the decision for registering to the event.

1. It is in our hands to make the most of everything we find, that's just a positive approach but still it is worth because every maiden event will have something new and different and its a maiden event of ATTH.

2. In today's world of hyper competition and unexpected challenges, Social Entrepreneurship is the revolutionary way to overcome those with ease and the event is about Social Entrepreneurship.

3.  The Best part about the event is Speakers.
     Sujit Lalwani is the best international inspirational speaker whose talks has proven the most entertaining and motivational. His Actions speaks a lot and all his achievements are more than sufficient for anyone to attend the event. No doubts there will be few people who will not get entry pass even after registering.
    Michael Teoh Su Lim a malaysia's youth icon, your big year 2010 Global Citizen and his live streaming talk. This shows the event is going to be global and quality oriented.
    Shankar Krishnamurthy  founder of TEDxNTU and Mentor of TEDxCQ. We can expect something unique definitely by such a variety of Speakers.
    Mohan BN Multi lingual inspirational speaker, risk taker, high profiled academic holder will definitely charge up the event. This will definitely expand the event.
    Ashish Vaidya a corporate Social entrepreneur, inventor and flutist. Then a musical way of social entrepreneurship portion also be expected out of the event.

4. Agenda of the event is the key feature of the Event which has lots in store, Get in contact with the marketing team immediately to have the brochure and brief of the event.

5. The event is going to provide an awareness about social entrepreneurship for sure, the live examples of such a speakers will motivate definitely and ultimately it will wake up that social Entrepreneur in atleast few people.

6. Attending to such an event will increase our value in our own social circle as well.

Find out the status of the seats availability and register soon. Wish to see the deserving get a chance to attend the event.

You need to have Memory before you can Forget

Most of the times, we will forget what we are suppose to remember and we won't forget what we are suppose to forget. There is a saying that "Forgetting things is a boon to people, so that people can forget all the bad memories and move on with the Life" When we forget things which we are suppose to remember, we feel bad that our memory is not strong enough and wonder how did we forget such a small thing. When we cannot forget something which is bothering, we feel bad that why our memory is so strong and worry why can't we forget?

Now the question is How to avoid forgetting things which we are suppose to remember? and How to forget things which are troubling us? 

First of all, we are clear what not to forget? like buying few things to home, paying the bills before last date, clearing the debts in time, filling the fuel to the vehicle before it stops in the middle of the street, completing the assignment, most importantly working towards our dream/goal/success. Everyone one of us have dreams and the ability to achieve it, but we forget to remind ourselves that we need to work towards it to accomplish.

We are also clear what to forget? like bad incidents, fights, failures, Relationship issues, Anger, Revenge, Fear. Everyone of us deserves a happy life to enjoy the present moment by forgetting past sorrows, but we keep reminding ourselves about those incidents.

Rather than finding out How? to overcome? If we are able to answer why? we can find out How? very easily. This is the common principle works everywhere, but we forget to apply. Lets make use of this without forgetting.

Lets find out why not to forget few things? 

because if we forget,

1. It will cost us.

2. It might hurt someone.

3. It lead us to do double work.

4. It adds up unnecessary pressure.

5. It will affect our regular routine.

so, it is important to remember.

Lets find out why to forget few things?

because

1. we cannot live in present.

2. we cannot focus on work.

3. we cannot enjoy current happiness.

4. we cannot give time to others and ourselves as well.

5. we won't move forward in Life.

so, it is important to forget those which stops us from growing.

Before forgetting something, we should have some memory about it to forget right? How can we store something into our memory? By providing input to our mind regarding something. The problem in things which we forget, we don't feed those inputs into our memory, because of the least priority or still there is no deadline. It just takes a couple of thoughts to feed into our memory. But we won''t do that, instead we just sense that something has to be done. something like a video camera running without memory card inside to store. 

If we just follow a simple two step procedure 

1. Give attention to detail

2. provide the input to mind, just by thinking once what has to be done.

in everything we do, we will get impressed by ourselves in no time.

A simple example will be How many times we forget the names of the new people we meet?

If we just give our attention, while they are telling their name and recalling their name and thinking about it, we won't forget their name at least for few weeks.

How to forget? is more complex than how to remember? Because the things which we are suppose to forget are nothing but the memories which are repetitively occurred and reinforced over time and again. These memories are something stored in hundreds of memory card with multiple backups. Now we erase one memory block, there exists a backup of it. Our mind has an infinite memory space with an enable option to activate those. Our mind doesn't forget things so easily, it is very complex and time consuming, but we can deactivate those memories by putting a wall around it. That means, we don't forget completely, its just we do not recall it. Remembering to forget something will actually create a backup of the memory one more time that we have to forget that. Instead if we don't force ourselves in forgetting and redo the different things in the same space, there are more chances of overriding the memories which we want to forget.

A simple example will be the school life or college life, we would have gone to school/college everyday and interact with same set of people repetitively that would have created huge set of backups. But when we replace our school life with college life and college with work life, we will be doing the different set of activities daily repetitively i.e. in the same space. which slowly builds a wall over old set of memories and create a new set of memories. This leads us to forget the things smoothly and live in the present.

"No need to forget old memories irrespective of whether its good or bad, instead create a new set of memories with time; which gives us enough option to choose the memories which makes us happy any time"

~ANIL K N

Forgiveness

Do you have the question that How can I forgive someone, who has done so much wrong with me?

Will you forgive someone, who had hurt you?

Can you  forgive someone, even when they haven't realized their Mistake?

Should we forgive someone, if they accept their mistake and ask for forgiveness?

I guess, these questions are sufficient enough to let our beautiful mind to understand the importance of forgiveness and get free from anger and frustration quickly. Everyone of us would have faced a situation where either we were suppose to forgive someone or we expect others to forgive us. 

Let us start from we seeking forgiveness. When we realized we have done some mistake or hurt someone or committed something wrong which is not acceptable. we should first try to clear the mess created by us. We cannot undo what is already happened, so we should give a shot to redo it in a better way to compensate for the mistake we have done. If it was able to rectify our mistake, we would have earned 50% of Forgiveness bu ourselves. But still 50% is remaining. If our mistake is something so wrong that, its effect is kind of irreversible and it is bothering us that because of us such a catastrophic things occurred, then we need to take responsibility for what we have done and we have to forgive ourselves. No Person is bad or wrong by nature, its their inability to react to the critical situations make them choose wrong decision and so the wrong deed. We are no exception, But the good thing is we realized it is wrong and we should make sure we take wise decision from now on and never repeat any such mistakes. Let us be brave to accept our mistake and ask for forgiveness. Rest left to the person who has become the victim of our mistake.

Now comes the major part of forgiving someone, when we are angry and we cannot forget what someone has done and we cannot recover what we lost because of someone else mistake. There are two possibilities about the person who has made a mistake. One they don't even bothered that they have done a mistake and moved on with their Life. We should realize that the hate we feel towards them doesn't harm them by any means. "Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for it to kill our enemy." The best revenge against our enemies is to live our life successfully. Revenge never gives Justice. The simple way to destroy our enemy is by making them friend. The Second possibility is they realized their mistake and trying to rectify themselves. If we try to take revenge on them by not forgiving and punishing them to live with the guilt, we are just trying to take revenge. If we forget and give them the chance to redo the things in a better way, they will never do any mistake or wrong not only with us, but also with anybody else. If we think that, How can we forgive someone, who kills somebody intentionally and just say sorry. The person who committed the crime will not get better, instead thinks however the same punishment for killing one person also and n numbers also. so they choose the wrong path again unless they are taken into custody by law. So, lets not compare the things which doesn't fit in the category. If we try to compare someone who blamed us unnecessarily with some killer, it doesn't suit right. Lets keep our discussion to those scenarios we face daily rather than some extreme cases.

When someone is asking for forgiveness and we don't forgive them. That means we are punishing them more just because we got to know they will feel sad as long as we don't forgive. But If they were the first kind of people who doesn't care about their mistake, we couldn't have done anything. By making them suffer and punish them will never give us satisfaction, But the day they realize they have got the punishment they deserve, they will stop asking for forgiveness and that makes we deserved the wrong thing they did to us. Its better to forgive and forget the negative things. Instead By looking at the learning we have learned from others mistake, the strength we gained by facing the negative scenario. We can easily forgive them. If we don't forgive, we keep living in the past. When we forgive people and get along, we live in the present.

Please forgive me, if any of my writings hurt anyone's feelings.

And Lets forgive those who cannot understand and think wise in critical situations.

Feel free to let me know if you have any comments

Expectation from "???"

I know the "???" question mark in the title made you curious to know about it.
Well i want you to replace that "???" with whichever in the following suits you.

Expectation from Parents
Parents expect their 4-12 years kids to learn the best things in the world in the fastest time possible. They expect from their 13-17 years children not to involve in any fights and set a proper basement for their Academics. They expect from 18-22 years son and daughter to stay away from distractions and complete the education and frame a clear career path. They expect 23-30 year daughter/son to get stabilized in the work and marry someone of their choice. They expect 30+ year kids to understand their weakness and support them. But, one thing for sure, your parents expect you to be always happy, free from all troubles, rely on them, grow in front of them. We know we love our Parents. Our parents also knows we love them. But we never express our Love to them in action and they never expect it either. I guess we can express our Love in action to exceed the expectation.

Expectation from kids
As a kid we expect our parents not to leave us alone any time. As we grow, we expect our parents to fulfill all our needs and wants compared to what our peers have. As we reach teenage, we expect more freedom to take our own decisions. As an Adult, we expect our parents to support us to grow in our areas of interest. As we cross 20+, we expect our parents to trust us and have belief that we will make it happen. After marriage, we expect our parents not to compare ourselves with us before marriage. As a middle age person, we expect our parents to adapt with time. The main thing any of your son/daughter expect from you is belief and trust on them, then they will definitely won't leave you at any stage of their Life.

Expectation from Relatives
They expect you to help them, when they are in need. They expect you to understand their position also, when you are in need. They expect you to interact more during marriage season. They expect you to involve them in everything in your family. They expect you not to involve in their family matters. You can treat them as friends so that the relationship gets better.

Expectation from Friends
Friends expect you to share everything with them. They expect they should be informed first then anyone else. They expect you not to keep any secrets. They expect you to talk to them any time about anything in any place. They expect you to back them up, when they are into something. They expect you to be ready for all the fun. They expect you to involve them instead of inviting them. They expect you to listen to them and change the topic. They expect you to spend more time with them. They expect you to be together always.You can always give time to your friend, no matter how busy you get in Life.

Expectation from BF/GF
They expect you to treat them special. They expect you to give more importance to them. They expect you to be with them 100%, when you are with them. They expect you to praise them. They expect you to make time for them. They expect you to be protective with them. They expect you to show care for them. They expect you to understand them without asking questions. They expect you to give space to them, when they need. They expect you to be there with them, when they need. Honesty is most expected out of you.

Expectation from Husband/Wife
They expect you to be more responsible. They expect you to be genuine. They expect you to be more friendly. They expect you to treat their parents as equally your  parents. They expect you to manage career without troubling personal Life. They expect you to take care of them. They expect you to handle issues with an ease. They expect you to have faith in them. They expect you to keep update them with everything you are up to. They expect you to show your concern in action. They expect you to hold their hands forever. You can keep up your promise for your partner to meet the expectations.

Expectation from our self
What do we expect from ourselves?
We don't expect much from ourselves. we never gave that much importance to our expectations from self because we were also expecting from others like above mentioned expectations.We expect everyone else meet our expectations. We expect to meet other's expectations. We expect everything we do give positive results. Everything we did till now is because of our own expectations only but not defined ones. When we define our own expectations from self and work towards meeting it, we will definitely excel in our Life and be happy with our expectations and others as well.

CHANCE to CHOICE

"Take a chance and give a chance to increase your choices"
~ANIL K N

We know Success is by choice, not by chance. 

How can we choose the Success over failures?
Just increase the choices.
How can we have more choices?
Just by taking more chances.
How can we motivate ourselves to take more chances?
Just by giving more chances.
If "Sachin Tendulkar" was not taken a chance to play Cricket over formal education, He wouldn't have got as many choices from Cricketer to Member of Parliament.
If "Shahrukh Khan" was not given a chance in Bollywood, No one would have seen such a multilevel celebrity venturing into so many fields with so many choices.
These two legends were way beyond comparison, but still every successful people has taken a chance and given a chance by someone to increase their choices.

Lets talk about a simple example, some of you might have experienced a similar kind of thing in your Life.
I was doing a small project with one of my friend. We just had a problem statement in our mind, so we wanted to design a solution for that. Before starting itself, we have got more questions about everything else apart from actual Project like
What if it doesn't work?
What if its already done by someone else?
What if its considered as repetitive design?
What if it leads to more expenses?
More and more what if's?
But, We have taken a chance to go for it. I went to market and bought all the necessary raw materials.We worked till late night, It worked for a minute and stopped working. It was a kind of disappointment for that span of time. We didn't knew the reason why it is not working. We doubted on the design itself and thought we might redo the entire design again. But we gave a chance to our first design itself. We decided to debug carefully and we found the bug, solved the issue, design worked. Now The doors has opened for many Choices. The reason for which we thought of designing has fulfilled, but also gave many more ways to expand the design for different requirements.
Taking a chance and Giving a chance will definitely increase our choices in Education, Career, Business, Relationship, everywhere in Life. When we have more choices in our Life, we will get a chance to choose the best for us. We know what is Best for us, We can choose only from the choices we have.

A Person who never had a chance to see a foreign land will always try to convince himself that Whatever he got in his Home land is the best.
A Person who had been to a foreign land and never had a choice to come back to His home land, will try to convince himself that Foreign land is the best.
But A person who have a choice to visit a foreign land any time or return to Home land any time will definitely have the best time in all the places and all the choices he make without convincing himself.

When you close all the doors and feeling never gonna let yourself out, you will never know what you would have got if you have ever given a chance or taken a chance. Most of the times Your fear of going things wrong and fear of loosing your reputation stops you from doing what you really wanted to. Trying to maintain the social reputation by avoiding will actually spoil the social reputation.

"Take a Chance just once and Give a chance just once and see the magic of Life."

~ANIL K N

HOPE

Hope the morning is fresh and amazing
Hope every sunrise is soft and energizing
Hope the day begins with lots of wishes
Hope every wish positively nourishes

Hope the morning coffee is tastier
Hope every sip triggers me think better
Hope the breakfast gives me sufficient energy
Hope every joule of energy is in synergy

Hope the blessings of parents comes true again
Hope every blessing leads me towards more & more gain
Hope the first person i meet gives me Smile
Hope every person i meet gets my Smile

Hope the first day of college/work is clever
Hope every friend i make stays with me forever
Hope the challenges faced lets me act strong
Hope every action of mine never goes wrong

Hope the work done is appreciated
Hope every good work is recognized
Hope the efforts are utilized for the people in Reality
Hope every effort contributes to make better society

Hope the fun and laugh with friends stays long
Hope every friend get along
Hope the Friendship is perdurable
Hope every fight results in making friendship invulnerable

Hope the girl i met is the one
Hope everyone believes she is the chosen
Hope the love happens to both of us on its own
Hope every power in the universe makes her meet me soon

Hope the world remains safe
Hope every country is free from strafe
Hope the Hope instills belief
Hope every belief makes you relief

"If you don't have Hope then there is no Hope; No Hope is hopeless ever"
~ANIL K N

It's Never too Late

It has been more than 5 minutes,
You haven't smiled yet,
Still thinking why to Smile?
It's never too late, Smile Now.

It has been more than half an hour,
You haven't fed any positive thought,
Still thinking negative about it?
It's never too late, Think Positive.

It has been more than a hour,
You have put your alarm to snooze,
still you haven't wake up?
It's never too late, wake up now.

It has been couple of hours late to college/work.
Still you wondering to go in or not?
It's never too late, attend class now
or start working now.

It has been more than four hours,
You haven't taken a break,
Still you thinking whether to take break or work?
It's never too late, Take a break now.

It has been more than half a day,
You haven't said Hi to your friend,
Still thinking whether to say or not?
It's  never too late, Say Hi now.

It has been whole day,
You haven't done with your work,
Still worrying what will happen?
It's never too late, finish your work now.

It has been late night,
You haven't spend time with your family,
Still thinking about work?
It's never too late, spend some time with your family now.

It has been over mid night,
You haven't slept yet,
Still thinking about bad things of the day?
It's never too late, Hope for better tomorrow and sleep now.

It has been couple of days,
You haven't talk to your friends,
Still waiting for weekend?
It's never too late, Talk now.

It has been a week,
You haven't gone out anywhere,
Still wishing you went out somewhere?
It's never too late, Move out now.

It has been couple of weeks,
You haven't cleaned your place,
Still not helped mom?
It's never too late, Clean it up now.

It has been more than half a month,
You haven't hang out with your Friends,
Still worrying, who will go so far?
It's never too late, Have some fun now.

It has been a month,
You haven't been to gym/aerobics,
Still planning for next month?
It's never too late, Do some exercise now.

It has been couple of months,
You haven't had a day out with your family,
Still thinking, where to go?
It's never too late, Have a day out to movie now.

It has been a quarter of the year,
You haven't had time for yourself,
Still worrying, you are busy?
It's never too late, Go for a long drive now.

It has been half a year,
You haven't realized your expenses,
Still having trouble managing finances?
It's never too late, start filling excel sheet about all transactions now.

It has been more than 3 quarters,
You haven't sure what you are doing,
Still no idea about your career?
It's never too late, polish your Dreams now.

It has been a year,
You haven't done anything about your Dreams,
Still dreaming about it?
It's never too late, start working towards it.

It has been more than a year,
You haven't called your Friends,
Still waiting for them to call first?
It's never too late, Call now.

It has been a couple of years,
You haven't met your relatives,
Still looking for a big ocassion?
It's never too late, surprise them now.

It has been a long time,
You fought with someone and
Still Not talking to each other?
It's never too late, Forget, Forgive & be Friends now.

"As long as you take the action now, It's never too late"
~Anil K N

My Daughter

The day you were born, I came running to see you. I was scared to hold you in my hands; you were so soft and delicate. When I took you into my hands with tons of care, I felt like carrying my whole world in my Hands and decided to give you all the Happiness in the Universe. Your eyes were closed & started crying, I wanted to tell you that don’t worry my child you are in the safest hands in the entire world.

When you smiled looking at me as soon as I am home, I killed all my tiredness and I got tremendous energy to play with you all night. When you fell asleep on my shoulders, I didn’t want to put you on the bed, I just wanted you sleeping peacefully whole night. When you got scared of bad Dreams and hold my shirt as tight as you can, I wanted to come inside your Dream and thrash that scary thing which is threatening you, but I couldn’t so I decided to tell you only good stories that keep you free from bad Dreams and have a sweet Sleep.

When you stood up for the first time holding my finger and started to run with a big laugh, I knew you wanted to grow up faster and learn everything. But I had a fear of you getting hurt. I just wanted to make sure; you learn everything without any trouble. You are my Beautiful princess and always tried to let you live like the princess.

When you learn to speak and every word you said with your cute little voice was sweeter than honey. Every time you say a new word, it was celebration time for me. You are my angel, who makes me forget all the pain and makes me happy and Smiling in seconds.

I wanted to buy you everything before even you ask for it; I guess most of the times I am able to get it. When you ask for something I didn’t buy in time, I wished I had magical powers to get you in seconds. You are the most beautiful girl, who accepted all my gifts and liked whole heartedly everything I bought for you without complaining.

When you were afraid of going to school, I wanted to come and sit next to you inside the school, But, I wanted to enjoy your School Life with new friends and people around you. I always had all the time in the world to listen to you telling me what you learnt and what you did.

When you wanted to go out with your friends, play and have fun, I was hoping, everyone around you takes care of you. Every minute you are out there, I wanted to create a powerful shield around you that can protect you all the time. I was praying you choose the right friends, who are there for you, when I am not around.

When you want to stay out overnight, I was worried that will my Barbie doll get all the facilities to sleep comfortably. When you say, I am not a kid anymore and I can take care of myself, I use to hear like don’t stay so far that, you couldn’t hear my voice, when I call you. Whenever you are out, I was looking at my phone for every 5 minutes, thinking you might call me anytime.

When you wanted to marry the guy whom you love, I just wanted to make sure that he loves you more than me. I always wished you marry someone who takes care of you better than me. When you had your own baby, I was worried, how will my dear little baby take care of another small baby. But you are an amazing sweetheart. You exceeded my expectations in everything by miles. You are my Happiness, Even now when you smile, I get tons of energy.

Keep Smiling My dear lovely daughter

Emotion-Thoughts Equivalence

If Energy-Mass Equivalence from Einstein’s Theory of Relativity is to be used to understand the functioning of Brain, I have a very simple analogy to emphasize on the enormous Strength of our Brain.

In Energy-Mass Equivalence, E = MC²: E = Energy, M = Mass of an object and C = Speed of Light.

How can we relate this to the power of our Brain?

What is M and C in Brain?

Is it Mind Control?

Awesome thoughts to do some Brainstorming, Isn’t it?

Let me explain with an example, Consider a 5 years old kid is made to listen to a song of a foreign language, which he doesn’t know for several times, The kid will be able to pick up the lyrics, tune,  memorize and even sing. Some of few might have witnesses this from the kids around. In this case, M is number of times the kid has listened to the song. And C is the number of times kid tried singing even though it doesn’t know what it is?

Let us consider one more example, Recall yourself attended any VIVA/Oral Exams, where you have asked series of questions about some of your subjects or labs. I know most of the times you are not exactly prepared for it, but still you were able to impress the Evaluator and pass the Exam. In this case, M is a few amount of information you have studied or heard or remembered. C is the speed at which you respond to the questions.

We will see one more last example, If you were given 5 minutes time to genuinely think of all the negative qualities of a person about whom you know for a while, How many can you come up with? And again If you were given same 5 minutes to genuinely think of all the positive qualities of the same person, How many can you list down? Each one can have different numbers.

But the point I wanted to convey here is the Feelings/Emotions felt while listing down positive and Negative Qualities are entirely different right? Here, E is the Emotion that leads to the Energy inturn leads to the Excitement which leads to the Enthusiasm to act positive or Negative.

In General, E = Emotion, M = Amount of Information you know, C = Speed of your thoughts

“The Emotions you feel is related to the amount of information you feed and the rate at which you think about it”.

So, when you feed positive information/knowledge/ideas and think about those more frequently, your Emotions will be more positive that leads you to take positive actions.

Successful people allow themselves to know more & more positive information’s about what they want to achieve and think at the faster rate, so that they can implement, execute and achieve even before common man thinks about it.

The Wolf inside you

At times, you would have faced situations when you felt a great hate for those who have taken so much with no sorrow for what they do. But hate wears you down and does not hurt your enemy. It is like taking poison and wishing your enemy would die.

Two wolves are inside you. One wolf is good and does no harm. He lives in harmony with all around him and does not take offense when no offense was intended. It will only fight when it is right to do so and in the right way. This wolf stands for joy, peace, love, hope, sharing, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, friendship, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith.

The other wolf is full of anger. The littlest thing will set him into a fit of a temper. He fights everyone, all the time, for no reason. He cannot think because his anger and hate are so great. It is helpless anger, for his anger will change nothing. This wolf represents fear, envy, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, lies, false pride and superiority.

Sometimes it is hard to live with these two wolves inside us as both of them try to dominate the spirit.

Do you know which wolf wins ?

The one you feed the most!!!

All of us have a conscience inside us. Just follow what it tells us and we will never go wrong.

Never be reactive to situations. Remember that we always have a choice to choose what we feel about things.

Heaven in your Smile

I only exist
For the memory
That you were my Friend
A picture's engraved
Upon my minds eye
Of a forgotten time
It is distant now
It is meaningless
Without you

Time passes by
And only confirms
Everything I feared
All of the things
That I once lived for
Have disappeared
It's a hollow world
It's a world without aim
Without you
You are lost to me now
And it's lonely here
Without you

There is heaven in your smile
And a light is in your eyes
It's a secret you can't hide

I wish, some day i get a chance
to witness The Heaven in your smile again

 ~K N

You're the Inspiration

You know my Friendship is meant to be

The kind of Friendship that lasts forever

And i want you to be with me

from now, until the end of the time

You should know, everywhere i go

you are always on my mind, as a first priority

you are the meaning of nice Life

you are the inspiration

you bring positive feelings

I wanna have you here to hear me saying

No one needs you more than i need you

And i know, yes i know that its plain to see

But, You're the inspiration

INSPRODIGIANS

"Sujit Lalwani coined a new term called 'INSPRODIGIANS' derived from Two English words 'Inspiration' and 'Prodigies' which means 'A group of people who feel the push to write quality inspirational writings' Inspiration Unlimited eMagazine writers are entitled as INSPRODIGIANS on 06/06/2012"

Inspiration Unlimited eMagazine is creating revolution by making inspiration through information, publishing inspiring articles, poems and inspiring information. IUeMAG is Encouraging lot of Positively charged souls to write articles which spreads Hope to the world. IUeMAG has provided an opportunity for the young minds to write in a mature manner, which can drive the world to think positive and live positive. 

IUeMAG is implementing more and more creative ways of spreading Positive vibrations in the society, one such which has impressed me a lot is the concept of "Inspiration through Information"  This one will gives the information of the special occasion of the day. Click on the above link to experience yourself, I am sure you will be thrilled with the design and of-course with the inspiring information as well.

The Writers for this Magazine are from the various parts of the World, Each one is capable of creating revolutions in their fields to make the world around them a happy and better place to live. Every writer is unique and willing push themselves one step forward every moment to contribute in creating Inspiring Universe, where People will be encouraged, provided with opportunities to grow, Hope to live, Appreciated for their achievements, enriching the lives, growing by letting others grow, Spreading Happiness, Sharing Love, creating awareness, motivating to work, showing Enjoyment, making people Smile and Inspiring to blossom everywhere.

"I am proud to be an INSPRODIGIAN will bring the smiles on readers face through our words of comfortable inspiration"

~ANIL K N

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I am Sorry

Almost every one of us would have said or heard this phrase “I am Sorry” at least for once in our Life. Nowadays, how often it has been used? How effective it is? Does the Person who asks it really means so? Does the Person who listens values it? Is it necessary to say sorry, when you are actually not? Do you forgive someone for their mistakes, when they say, they are sorry?

I guess these many questions are more than enough to make next few minutes of our time interesting to take our perception level to next dimensions. Let us go through an intense conversation between two People. They can be Friends, Brothers, Sisters, relatives, colleagues, couples or any two who has some kind of relation between them.

A: I am sorry. Please Talk to me.

B: I don’t want to talk to you.

A: I know, you are very angry, Please Listen to me.

B: I don’t want to, why are you forcing me?

A: Why can’t we talk normal again?

B: Who the hell are you to decide? It’s my life, I will decide whether to talk or not.

A: I am extremely sorry, Please give me one more chance.

B: You are no one to me, Get the Hell out of my Life.

A: I accept my mistake, I did wrong to you. It was my bad.

B: You are sick and pathetic, I can’t change my opinion.

A: You can scold me for what I did, I might deserve that.

B: Don’t you have self Respect? It is never going to be normal again and I can’t pretend to be.

A: What do you want me to do?

B: I don’t want anything from you; I want to stay away from you.

A: Please forgive me.

B: I can’t forgive what you have done.

A: I can’t undo what I have done; I will promise that I will not repeat again.

B: I can’t trust you anymore.

A: I didn’t have any wrong intentions.

B: If you don’t have any wrong intentions, stay away from me.

A: I am afraid I can’t Trust myself anymore and may not be able to forgive myself.

B: I can’t be normal with you again, But, I don’t want to spoil your image in front of others, I will try to behave normal in front of others.

I know, this is little too much of intense conversation. While reading, if any of you have pictured yourself in one of the characters, I am sure you are looking for some kind of support for your actions. Well, I don’t know who is right? Or who is wrong?

From the conversation, most of us can make out, Our Friend A is trying very hard to keep the relationship alive and desperate for forgiveness. And Our Friend B is too much upset and disappointed with A’s mistakes and not willing to have any kind of relationship.

There are no bad people, only wrong decisions during certain circumstances make them do bad actions. We just need to learn to handle those critical situations in Life to avoid most of the actions which leads to negative results. It doesn’t means mistakes will never happen, Mistakes do happen, but we need to make sure we are not repeating the same mistakes again and again. To avoid repeating the mistakes, it is necessary to realize that mistake has been done and learn from it and rectify it. This is very general way and applies when you are dealing with some kind of experiment doing independently, even after making mistakes, learn from it, don’t give up, have a hope and retry in a different approach till you get the desired result, Since we have gone through a kind of apology/forgiveness in relationship, which involves two different Human beings not the things whose thoughts are completely individual to each other.

How do we deal with this?

Even though it's a matter between two different individuals, Success of Relationship is also based on few basic principles. Success is a Journey not the destination, so do the Relationship. It is not about winning or losing. It is more of pursuing. AS our Friend A was trying hard to maintain the Relationship and Friend B was afraid of trusting B again. If you have empathized it with any of the characters as either ‘A’ or ‘B’.

As ‘A’ you should find out what exactly you are expecting from B and How much you are ready to give for that and Is it really worth all the efforts you are going to put in? If you are clear with your intentions, do not make any wrong moves, Have Hope and wait with  patience to show you deserve to have one more chance. Before that forgive yourself, because you have realized what is your mistake and ready to correct yourself, Now is the time to prove it in action. Don’t try to force yourself into B’s space Focus on implementing your learning in all other Relationships you have. You may or may not get back into normal relationship with B again, But you will never lose any other Relationship again. If you are really sorry, Respect B’s feelings and Decision and give the freedom to B to decide whether B wants to give one more chance to the Relationship or not?

As ‘B’ you should figure out, you want to end the Relationship right away forever or just want to wait whether A is going to take any wrong decision again? If you want to End the Relationship, Don’t wait or hide. You don’t want it means you don’t. why to think of other people, instead of pretending normal in front of others. End the Relationship openly in front of all. If you want to wait and see, that means you have already forgiven A, you just need a proof that this time you are not going to be hurt again. Forgiving takes out biggest burden on your shoulders.

We all know, every relationship is important and valuable. It takes years to build and maintain. Sometimes few mistakes can easily break any relationship. If the relationship is so weak, it wouldn’t have deserved this much of discussion. If it is based on Truth and Honesty, It will sustain no matter How worse the fights are?

If you say “I am Sorry” again mean it so truly that you never need to say it again. If you forgive someone even after the biggest mistakes, make sure, you never lose that Relationship.

Selflessness

Once a Forest catches fire and all the animals started running for their lives. A Tiger Cub gets trapped in a bush, A deer fawn saves the Tiger cub. Both escaped from the fire and found a safe place. They searched for long time, but they didn't find their families. Both Tiger and Deer became good friends and started living together for few months helping each other. Tiger grew up thinking Tigers won't hunt Deer and Deer grew up thinking Tigers are harmless.
After a year, Deer found its family. Deer's family wasn't aware of Tiger's Friendship, They got scared, took the deer and ran away from the Tiger. When Deer told its family that Tiger is a Friend, They were not ready to risk their lives and forced the Deer to stay away from Tiger. Tiger was looking for Deer all over the places. After few days, Tiger found the place, where Deers are residing, Tiger entered inside expecting a welcome from Deer,  But, All the Deers started running and took Tiger's friend also along with them.
Tiger was confused and thought, they are playing a game and Tiger has to catch them. So, Tiger started chasing all the Deer, All the Deer got terrified and thought Tiger is chasing to kill them all and they started scolding the Deer for making friendship with the Tiger. Tiger got tired and went back near river to drink water.
Deer thought they escaped and left that cave and went to far away place.
But, Deer came back near the river to meet the Tiger and told the Deer that it cannot play with Tiger again and told the Tiger to go find its family. When the Deer came back, Its family explained Tigers can never become friends with Deer, its nature is to hunt and one day it will kill all, if we allow it to be with us.
Tiger found its family and was very happy, It came back to tell the Deer that it has got its family and it is very happy. But, Deer again started running for their lives and went in search of another safe place. Deer was frustrated running again and again, it said, it wanted to end this forever.
Tiger was explained by its family that, Tigers hunt deer and eat, it's their nature of survival.But the Tiger wasn't ready to kill the deer which saved its life. So, Tiger left the place and came in search of Deer, When the Tiger found the new hide out of Deer, Deer came to the Tiger and asked not to come again searching and stay away from deer family forever.
Tiger gets very sad and upset, decided to take its Life which was once saved by the Deer. It went to the top of the mountain and about to jump, It thought for everything for one last time and realized, its Life has been saved by the Deer for some reason, wasting it doesn't serve the purpose of once saved. Deer has saved its Life once and Deer may not want to be with Tiger, But it needs Tiger to be safe from other animals. So came back, But never shown up to the Deer, But Every time any other Tiger or animals were about to attack the Deer, Tiger used to threaten those before only and send them away.
Deer never realized, It was saved hundreds of time for the good deed it has done once. Tigers family never realized why Tiger is showing so much gratitude. But, Tiger was happy saving Deer Life all the time.
"Never judge anyone by your past experience, There is lot more in the world which you have never seen"
"Selflessness is a act of caring forever without any expectations"
~ANIL K N

Truth

Once a small boy was lying, His mom told him, "If you lie, your ears and Nose will grow big and you will become like a Fox" then he stopped lying forever and always told the Truth through out his Life even though He has to suffer a lot of pain for some of the crucial Truths in the critical situations.
After facing the real world filled with lies, He was treated as an Alien in the World of Lies. He use to wonder for sometime, How come no one turned into the Fox?
His belief on his mother words are so strong, He never doubted on his Trust for his mother.
After a very long time of living Truthful Life irrespective of all the blames, He understood His mother was absolutely right, Those who were Lying has to keep their ears everywhere their Lie traveling, hide their mouth under the nose to lie again to cover the previous lie and live the cunning Life like Fox.
Where as He never has to remember what all the Truth he told so that he can cover later and never has to worry about what people talk about his truth. He just lived True Life of his own choices.

Never Compromise when you are with me

Dedicated to all the women i know.
In our Country, Women is respected for hundreds of reasons.
One of which is she compromises most of the times in her Life.
A mother compromise lot of her wishes to bring up her kids in
the best way possible without any trouble to the kid.
A sister compromises many times to make her brother feel happy.
As a friend she compromises to have a True friendship.
A wife compromises her parents to make her husband superior.
A daughter compromises her desires to keep her Dad's respect.

Thanks to all the woman in my Life.

I will give my best to make sure, when you are with me, you don't
have to compromise most of the things, All your wishes are fulfilled.

Love you mom:-)

Infinite Loop of Newton's Third Law

We all know, What is Newton's Third Law.
Yes you are Right, "For Every Action, There will be an equal and opposite Reaction"

But, The Reaction will be another Action, Which will have a another Reaction again, like Re-ReAction.
But, this Re-ReAction is not same as the original Action.
According to Law of Conservation of Energy, The amount of intensity and Energy will be equal for the loop of Action and Reactions, But they are not the same and cannot go back in time change the original Action or reverse the original Action.

In our Life as well, We will face various Reactions from people for every Action of us and we React to other people's Action. Have you noticed, Will it end after Reaction?
Re-ReAction keeps happening and No matter How many loops are done, the original Action cannot be undone.


Have you ever noticed, for one action you did long back, still you are experiencing its reaction, if not directly, indirectly like Action-Reaction loop?

 When there is some argument, counter argument will be the reaction and that never leads to conclusion, instead, it goes to an infinite loop of various action and Reactions.
When there is some blame, the reaction will be some explanation that leads to some justification that leads to some friction, which keeps on running in different forms.
When there is some fight, some revenge will be the reaction and again revenge to the revenge.
When there is some rejection, some frustration happens that leads to irritation and to argument and retry. Even if you find an acceptation on the path, It doesn't undo the initial rejection.


So, Can we find a break or exit from this infinite loop? Well, Instead of trying to run away from a problem or hiding yourself from the problem, By facing the problem and adapting to the circumstances can change the negative impacts of the above situations into positive and pleasant experiences.


Since, this loop keeps running forever, Why not convert this Action-Reaction into Synced Action which means, the purpose of both Action and Reaction gets served and nullify over there itself. Suppose An Action of Scolding is to teach someone a Lesson, The Reaction will be for Scolding, either justification or Apologizing or realization or getting Angry. For every Reaction, the Re-Reaction varies like argument or showing the proof or initiating the fight. If not, simultaneously, All of the above will be keep happening in the loop. So to get into synced Action like lesson should be taught and realization should be more focused by forgetting and eliminating other action and Reactions.

Whenever you find yourself in such kind of loop, figure out what exactly was the purpose to still keeping the loop active with such a high frequency. If possible, execute more loops faster till it gets stabilized, so that the frequency of loop can become very long. Example: Suppose, You need to get some work done by someone. You took a easiest approach and things didn't go well and you are in a kind of loop where, work is not getting done. Focus on getting work done rather than arguing on the approaches. Eliminate discussing about Action and Reactions, talk about Getting Work done, what all needed for the work to be completed and How it can be done. Speed up this loop, till things get stabilized and smooths out. Then the Work will get done quickly and easily, The Action- Reaction loop would have changed into positive Actions of Appreciation and Thanking.



 

Heart vs Brain

February being the month of Love and Brain being one of my favorite topic, Let me write about the thoughts occur in Brain regarding Love. Now you might be thinking Heart is responsible for Love and Brain should simply follow the Heart. Fair enough, but is that so simple to implement and bring it into Action? 

Let us assume, No! lets feel we are in Love. Love can be with some person or with our Dream. Our Heart Beats faster when we see that person or think of our Dream. What does our Brain understands? Is it an Adrenalin rush due to emergency for fight or Flight? According to the visual sight from eyes and Audio hearing from ears, there is no danger. Brain is confused, about next action, and its trying to find out what is the emergency by scanning all its previous memories, logic and understandings of the surrounding environment. That’s the state of nervousness caused due to non coherence between Brain and Heart. But Brain needs some logic or kind of proof to execute next step, until we get that, it’s a series of random thoughts that makes us do things which we laugh at ourselves at later stage. Ultimately, Our Brain figures out, it’s a false trigger of emergency given from Heart due to some strange emotional feeling called Love and it stores the related person or Dream as Love, which Brain doesn’t understands but gets affected in the quest of finding a logical proof. 

Now, every time when we come across a situation that reminds that person or Dream, Brain indicates our sensory organs eyes, ears and skin to locate our love. Heart knows only to Love, so it pumps more blood towards Brain to help supplying more oxygen to Brain to be more active. Brain takes all the steps to reach closer to our Love/Dream. There are two possibilities, one we find our Love, two we won’t. If we find love for us from that person or we accomplish our Dream. Brain concludes by matching all the events taken place till now with a reason and logic, and tries to reproduce the same again and again when the situation arises. Brain and Heart is in complete coherence with each other and spreads more Love. If we won’t find love or accomplish our Dream, Brain is again in confused state since there is no match and reasoning for the events occurred till now. Heart again continues to Love irrespective of outcome, But Brain doesn’t get it easily, so total non coherence. Heart pumps more blood to our Hands and Legs to go for it, But Brain rejects to move forward without a logical reason. Brain takes some reverse action like forgetting, but for Brain the process of forgetting means remembering not to remember, that makes it to save twice. Brain replaces all Love with every other known emotions like Hate, Anger, etc. But still fails to find a logical reason.

If anyone experiences any such situation, don’t worry: just give some time to both Heart and Brain to settle down by using your willpower which is the reason of your existence apart from all biological stuff. With time and willpower, Brain understands Heart role is to Love unconditionally and my role is to show the Love in Action, Since Heart doesn’t expect anything in return, why should I keep looking for a reason or logic to show Love. Heart never breaks, it takes impure blood and gives out pure blood. Brain is a vast universe learning itself day by day.

Brain is an evolving organ, which keeps learning. Heart is the stabilized organ, which always tries to retain its stability. Let the Brain and heart sort the issues with each other about what is Love? You do what makes you feel right and Happy :-)

Your Role in the Functioning of Universe

Have you ever wondered about the magnitude of your significance in life? About whether you are the most important being to anyone, how much you matter and the like? Well if yes, after reading this article you might realize your importance in the functioning of the Universe. If no, I guess it's time for you to ask yourself those questions!
Our Universe is a Hash function of Time and Space considering Time travel creates a Butterfly effect. (Hash function: one way function or irreversible function). Every individual occupies
space and moves in positive direction of time.
We all know that:
*Energy can neither be created nor destroyed, it can only be transformed from one form to another.
*Energy is the ability to do work.
*Work is the force acting through a distance.
*Force is a product of mass & acceleration.
(End of definitions).
Now relate yourselves with the above definitions. You have the Mass (Weight) and you are moving forward with time, so you have the force, it‘s not just the physical Force. It‘s your thoughts about your Dreams, Ambitions, Goals and Vision which leads you to accelerate in your Life. When you are working to-wards accomplishing your desires with the force of your passion, you will acquire the energy to go for it by overcoming every hassle.
This energy of yours is a part of the universe which keeps on transforming in the form of your activities. Every activity of yours is important. Even the slightest amount of activity you are doing will have its significance in the functioning of the Universe. You have the Power to control the Universe. When you channelize all your actions in unidirectional way, you accelerate your Life in IU(Infinite Universe) dimensions.
For every choice you have made in life, have you ever wondered what if you have chosen the other option, what would life have been like, where you would've been today, what you would have become etc? As I mentioned earlier, the Butterfly effect would have occurred. (Butterfly effect: Changing one very tiny little thing in the flow of your Life will change a multitude of things with time). What-ever decision you have made has played a role in the functioning of the Universe. You are important, and every deed of yours as well.

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Inspiration Unlimited

Everyone of us needs any sort of inspiration by any means to do any activity. We need some inspiration to wake up early, For many to wake up only. Then to Go out of Home and get what we want. Most of the times, its the laziness conquers over our thrive to accomplish. An Inspiration is what we need to drive us towards growth.

In Today's world, Media which programs people mind about any topic or any person is filled with lot of negative and not so truth information. This in return makes people to become puppets in the hands of News makers. An individual loses his/her ability to think and take decision of their own and follows and believes what most of the Channels broadcasting. This makes a person to limit himself/herself to what it is been shown around by suppressing their potential.

Every one needs to start their day with a Positive note of making the world a better place. The Day should start with a Hope of Life and the belief of accomplishment rather than any sort of fear and negative thoughts. Most of us discuss about the topics covered in News papers/ News Channels and majority will be repeating the same words from the media. Imagine if a negative news has been spread so fast repetitively, what kind of impact it will be on the thought process of a man/woman.

I really appreciate all those Media who is trying to spread a positive word, Hope, confidence and a strength to people through their positive flow of information. This is very much needed and should be more frequent for the nation to make its mark and grow with more Humanity and peace. Inspiration is like a catalyst to fasten the process and sometimes its the initiator.

One such e-Magazine is Inspiration Unlimited http://www.iuindia.com/index.php

Inspiration Unlimited e-Magazine has already released two issues. Each one containing nice articles form the writers all over the world. Its been an international platform from the day of its launch. The work done behind this is tremendous. The founder himself is the biggest inspiration for millions of people all over the world. A team led by such an inspirational Speaker is doing the best of best to get the right positive inspiration through words and action.

Everyone who reads the magazine will agree for the point that, this is what everyone needs to set their Nerves in the best way possible to allow us to impact the universe as a positive revolution of Action and Growth with Success at the rate of never been seen before which is sustainable for long time in the years to come.

Lets make use of the Positive flow of information and get inspired and inspire the world from our Never Expected Actions...

My First Love

She is my very first Love of my Life and will be my love forever. She is my Best Friend in my Life. I have never been away from her for any reason. Even after thousands of fight, I will go back to her only within no time. She taught me How to Love someone for so long time irrespective of all the differences without any expectations. She made my Life so Beautiful by providing me the best feeling of being Loved.

I can achieve everything because of her Love. I might look strong and Happy on my face and in my words, but I am able to do that because she is there for me at any point of time. She understands everything about me and i love to allow her to know everything about me. She knows everything about me including all my negatives, but still she loves me because i cannot be worse than that and the only scope is me getting better in her Love.

Even though I am in a position to lead myself completely alone. I want to be dependent on her, so that i can be with her always and allow me to go back her every time. I will share everything with her to let her know, you are the only one for me. Sometimes I wouldn't have shown my pain and sadness, because that will make her sad. But the best part is she will get to know the pain behind my Smile, which makes me get back my Smile and retain it forever.

I will be very jealous of she taking care of anyone else apart from me because she is mine and I am ready to do anything to get her attention. She is been my world always. I would love to do all the mistakes in front of her, because she is the only one who is capable of changing me and correct me without me being hurt or lost anything. I don't have to be smart in front of her, i can impress her by being the weakest person in the world also.

She literally taught me everything, How to Live? How to Enjoy? How to Love and How to be Loved?
She always expected me to behave like a KID and allow her to express all her Love on me. I let my complete life to her to shape into the way she want because she loves that. I cannot live without her love. I will never fail in my Life because She taught me How to Love and I love everyone in the same way. I will never do any mistakes in my Life because She taught me to take best decisions.

I LOVE YOU MOM

Are We Responsible for what We say?

"Our Actions are the Results of thousands of thoughts We had"

Yes, Even the Most Spontaneous Response given by anyone has been processes, verified and Cross Checked in our Brain atleast once before executing. So, You can think of those actions which we have taken after thinking about it. So, We are only responsible for every Action we have taken and every word we have spoken.
The Best Speakers we hear on stage has the better ability to think about a situation as many times as possible in the shortest span of time on stage and they never come unprepared, which makes them the best. They won't blame the audience for their Words.
We try to blame on others actions for what we have done or said, where the fact is Our thoughts are responsible for what we do.
When we understand that every word of us is our responsibility, we will become more cautious on what we are going to say and helps us to avoid lot of unnecessary fights which would have occurred because of our words. Take the Responsibility of each word you speak and make each word of yours count. Let all our thoughts gets its value for providing us the right words in right time.

Effective Human Being

"Tricky Emotions will make you a less effective Human Being"
~ANIL KN

Tricky Emotions? What does that mean and How does it effect?
Its nothing but any of our emotions, that needs more attention of our Brain
like Anger, Frustration, Fear, Jealousy basically negative emotions.
During which Brain tries to support our emotion by providing all the inputs
or memories which makes those emotions stronger. Once those emotions
grow stronger it conquers Brain and avoids it to consider the memories which
are against the negative emotions. This forces Brain to act, i would rather say react
with respect to these tricky emotions. We all know that during our negative emotions,
we take the decisions which are not so Human. That makes us to behave in a completely
different person. All our actions during such phase reflects us as a less Effective Human
Being.

Our Brain just needs a trigger to activate to provide positive memories to the negative and
Tricky emotions, so that our Negative Emotions are suppressed and Brain can act based on the
positive memories rather than Negative Emotions. How to get that trigger is the biggest puzzle
for everyone? Feeding one positive thought about every person whom we meet in a Day.
Smiling at regular intervals of time. If you have Smiled now, that means you have a very good Heart,
Keep Smiling.

"Crazy Ideas will increases the probability of becoming more effective Human Being"
~ANIL KN