February being
the month of Love and Brain being one of my favorite topic, Let me write about
the thoughts occur in Brain regarding Love. Now you might be thinking Heart is
responsible for Love and Brain should simply follow the Heart. Fair enough, but
is that so simple to implement and bring it into Action?
Let us assume,
No! lets feel we are in Love. Love can be with some person or with our Dream. Our Heart Beats faster when we see that person
or think of our Dream. What does our Brain understands? Is it an Adrenalin rush
due to emergency for fight or Flight? According to the visual sight from eyes
and Audio hearing from ears, there is no danger. Brain is confused, about next
action, and its trying to find out what is the emergency by scanning all its
previous memories, logic and understandings of the surrounding environment.
That’s the state of nervousness caused due to non coherence between Brain and
Heart. But Brain needs some logic or kind of proof to execute next step, until
we get that, it’s a series of random thoughts that makes us do things which we
laugh at ourselves at later stage. Ultimately, Our Brain figures out, it’s a
false trigger of emergency given from Heart due to some strange emotional
feeling called Love and it stores the related person or Dream as Love, which
Brain doesn’t understands but gets affected in the quest of finding a logical
proof.
Now, every time
when we come across a situation that reminds that person or Dream, Brain
indicates our sensory organs eyes, ears and skin to locate our love. Heart
knows only to Love, so it pumps more blood towards Brain to help supplying more
oxygen to Brain to be more active. Brain takes all the steps to reach closer to
our Love/Dream. There are two possibilities, one we find our Love, two we
won’t. If we find love for us from that person or we accomplish our Dream.
Brain concludes by matching all the events taken place till now with a reason
and logic, and tries to reproduce the same again and again when the situation
arises. Brain and Heart is in complete coherence with each other and spreads
more Love. If we won’t find love or accomplish our Dream, Brain is again in
confused state since there is no match and reasoning for the events occurred
till now. Heart again continues to Love irrespective of outcome, But Brain
doesn’t get it easily, so total non coherence. Heart pumps more blood to our
Hands and Legs to go for it, But Brain rejects to move forward without a
logical reason. Brain takes some reverse action like forgetting, but for Brain
the process of forgetting means remembering not to remember, that makes it to
save twice. Brain replaces all Love with every other known emotions like Hate,
Anger, etc. But still fails to find a logical reason.
If anyone
experiences any such situation, don’t worry: just give some time to both Heart
and Brain to settle down by using your willpower
which is the reason of your existence apart from all biological stuff. With
time and willpower, Brain understands Heart role is to Love unconditionally and
my role is to show the Love in Action, Since Heart doesn’t expect anything in
return, why should I keep looking for a reason or logic to show Love. Heart
never breaks, it takes impure blood and gives out pure blood. Brain is a vast
universe learning itself day by day.
Brain is an evolving organ, which keeps learning. Heart is the stabilized organ, which always tries to retain its stability. Let the Brain and heart sort the issues with each other about what is Love? You do what makes you feel right and Happy :-)
