Will you be my Love?

My dear Sweetest Honey
You are the only one for me and its not funny.

Your Smile is the rarest beauty
I am your biggest fan always in duty.

You are the fairest fairy
I wish I can keep watching you forever deary

You open the eyes of My Dream
Please don't make me end it with a Scream.

If Diamonds are the most precious
You are the synonym for Precious.

Water has the ability to cure
you are the only cure for me, i am very sure.

Everyday i am learning about you is new
And every single one is so True.

I won't tell you, Today is the day i was thinking only about you
Because there is not even a single day where i haven't thought about you

I don't remember you every moment
because i have never forgotten you in any instant.

Every time, i hear your name, my heart skips a beat
My mind will imagine your picture so neat.

When My eyes sees your calm pretty face 
My heart beats as if i am running a marathon.

When i make your eyes fall on earth with shyness
The Ground below me becomes gravitational less.

I am not just interested in you
I am totally committed to you.
Hence I can't leave you.
And i can't leave without you.
I keep coming back for you
I will be patiently waiting for you.

Everything in Life grows
Even My Love for you.

With Time, My Love for you is growing strong
I am all yours for this Life, even if i am wrong.

I found my definition of Love.
You are my meaning of Life.

I am determined to be the best husband to my Wife
you will know that when you become part of my Life.

I believe that you will accept me,
till then you are in every thought of mine.

Will you be my Love?

Expectation from "???"

I know the "???" question mark in the title made you curious to know about it.
Well i want you to replace that "???" with whichever in the following suits you.

Expectation from Parents
Parents expect their 4-12 years kids to learn the best things in the world in the fastest time possible. They expect from their 13-17 years children not to involve in any fights and set a proper basement for their Academics. They expect from 18-22 years son and daughter to stay away from distractions and complete the education and frame a clear career path. They expect 23-30 year daughter/son to get stabilized in the work and marry someone of their choice. They expect 30+ year kids to understand their weakness and support them. But, one thing for sure, your parents expect you to be always happy, free from all troubles, rely on them, grow in front of them. We know we love our Parents. Our parents also knows we love them. But we never express our Love to them in action and they never expect it either. I guess we can express our Love in action to exceed the expectation.

Expectation from kids
As a kid we expect our parents not to leave us alone any time. As we grow, we expect our parents to fulfill all our needs and wants compared to what our peers have. As we reach teenage, we expect more freedom to take our own decisions. As an Adult, we expect our parents to support us to grow in our areas of interest. As we cross 20+, we expect our parents to trust us and have belief that we will make it happen. After marriage, we expect our parents not to compare ourselves with us before marriage. As a middle age person, we expect our parents to adapt with time. The main thing any of your son/daughter expect from you is belief and trust on them, then they will definitely won't leave you at any stage of their Life.

Expectation from Relatives
They expect you to help them, when they are in need. They expect you to understand their position also, when you are in need. They expect you to interact more during marriage season. They expect you to involve them in everything in your family. They expect you not to involve in their family matters. You can treat them as friends so that the relationship gets better.

Expectation from Friends
Friends expect you to share everything with them. They expect they should be informed first then anyone else. They expect you not to keep any secrets. They expect you to talk to them any time about anything in any place. They expect you to back them up, when they are into something. They expect you to be ready for all the fun. They expect you to involve them instead of inviting them. They expect you to listen to them and change the topic. They expect you to spend more time with them. They expect you to be together always.You can always give time to your friend, no matter how busy you get in Life.

Expectation from BF/GF
They expect you to treat them special. They expect you to give more importance to them. They expect you to be with them 100%, when you are with them. They expect you to praise them. They expect you to make time for them. They expect you to be protective with them. They expect you to show care for them. They expect you to understand them without asking questions. They expect you to give space to them, when they need. They expect you to be there with them, when they need. Honesty is most expected out of you.

Expectation from Husband/Wife
They expect you to be more responsible. They expect you to be genuine. They expect you to be more friendly. They expect you to treat their parents as equally your  parents. They expect you to manage career without troubling personal Life. They expect you to take care of them. They expect you to handle issues with an ease. They expect you to have faith in them. They expect you to keep update them with everything you are up to. They expect you to show your concern in action. They expect you to hold their hands forever. You can keep up your promise for your partner to meet the expectations.

Expectation from our self
What do we expect from ourselves?
We don't expect much from ourselves. we never gave that much importance to our expectations from self because we were also expecting from others like above mentioned expectations.We expect everyone else meet our expectations. We expect to meet other's expectations. We expect everything we do give positive results. Everything we did till now is because of our own expectations only but not defined ones. When we define our own expectations from self and work towards meeting it, we will definitely excel in our Life and be happy with our expectations and others as well.

HOPE

Hope the morning is fresh and amazing
Hope every sunrise is soft and energizing
Hope the day begins with lots of wishes
Hope every wish positively nourishes

Hope the morning coffee is tastier
Hope every sip triggers me think better
Hope the breakfast gives me sufficient energy
Hope every joule of energy is in synergy

Hope the blessings of parents comes true again
Hope every blessing leads me towards more & more gain
Hope the first person i meet gives me Smile
Hope every person i meet gets my Smile

Hope the first day of college/work is clever
Hope every friend i make stays with me forever
Hope the challenges faced lets me act strong
Hope every action of mine never goes wrong

Hope the work done is appreciated
Hope every good work is recognized
Hope the efforts are utilized for the people in Reality
Hope every effort contributes to make better society

Hope the fun and laugh with friends stays long
Hope every friend get along
Hope the Friendship is perdurable
Hope every fight results in making friendship invulnerable

Hope the girl i met is the one
Hope everyone believes she is the chosen
Hope the love happens to both of us on its own
Hope every power in the universe makes her meet me soon

Hope the world remains safe
Hope every country is free from strafe
Hope the Hope instills belief
Hope every belief makes you relief

"If you don't have Hope then there is no Hope; No Hope is hopeless ever"
~ANIL K N

You're the Inspiration

You know my Friendship is meant to be

The kind of Friendship that lasts forever

And i want you to be with me

from now, until the end of the time

You should know, everywhere i go

you are always on my mind, as a first priority

you are the meaning of nice Life

you are the inspiration

you bring positive feelings

I wanna have you here to hear me saying

No one needs you more than i need you

And i know, yes i know that its plain to see

But, You're the inspiration

I am Sorry

Almost every one of us would have said or heard this phrase “I am Sorry” at least for once in our Life. Nowadays, how often it has been used? How effective it is? Does the Person who asks it really means so? Does the Person who listens values it? Is it necessary to say sorry, when you are actually not? Do you forgive someone for their mistakes, when they say, they are sorry?

I guess these many questions are more than enough to make next few minutes of our time interesting to take our perception level to next dimensions. Let us go through an intense conversation between two People. They can be Friends, Brothers, Sisters, relatives, colleagues, couples or any two who has some kind of relation between them.

A: I am sorry. Please Talk to me.

B: I don’t want to talk to you.

A: I know, you are very angry, Please Listen to me.

B: I don’t want to, why are you forcing me?

A: Why can’t we talk normal again?

B: Who the hell are you to decide? It’s my life, I will decide whether to talk or not.

A: I am extremely sorry, Please give me one more chance.

B: You are no one to me, Get the Hell out of my Life.

A: I accept my mistake, I did wrong to you. It was my bad.

B: You are sick and pathetic, I can’t change my opinion.

A: You can scold me for what I did, I might deserve that.

B: Don’t you have self Respect? It is never going to be normal again and I can’t pretend to be.

A: What do you want me to do?

B: I don’t want anything from you; I want to stay away from you.

A: Please forgive me.

B: I can’t forgive what you have done.

A: I can’t undo what I have done; I will promise that I will not repeat again.

B: I can’t trust you anymore.

A: I didn’t have any wrong intentions.

B: If you don’t have any wrong intentions, stay away from me.

A: I am afraid I can’t Trust myself anymore and may not be able to forgive myself.

B: I can’t be normal with you again, But, I don’t want to spoil your image in front of others, I will try to behave normal in front of others.

I know, this is little too much of intense conversation. While reading, if any of you have pictured yourself in one of the characters, I am sure you are looking for some kind of support for your actions. Well, I don’t know who is right? Or who is wrong?

From the conversation, most of us can make out, Our Friend A is trying very hard to keep the relationship alive and desperate for forgiveness. And Our Friend B is too much upset and disappointed with A’s mistakes and not willing to have any kind of relationship.

There are no bad people, only wrong decisions during certain circumstances make them do bad actions. We just need to learn to handle those critical situations in Life to avoid most of the actions which leads to negative results. It doesn’t means mistakes will never happen, Mistakes do happen, but we need to make sure we are not repeating the same mistakes again and again. To avoid repeating the mistakes, it is necessary to realize that mistake has been done and learn from it and rectify it. This is very general way and applies when you are dealing with some kind of experiment doing independently, even after making mistakes, learn from it, don’t give up, have a hope and retry in a different approach till you get the desired result, Since we have gone through a kind of apology/forgiveness in relationship, which involves two different Human beings not the things whose thoughts are completely individual to each other.

How do we deal with this?

Even though it's a matter between two different individuals, Success of Relationship is also based on few basic principles. Success is a Journey not the destination, so do the Relationship. It is not about winning or losing. It is more of pursuing. AS our Friend A was trying hard to maintain the Relationship and Friend B was afraid of trusting B again. If you have empathized it with any of the characters as either ‘A’ or ‘B’.

As ‘A’ you should find out what exactly you are expecting from B and How much you are ready to give for that and Is it really worth all the efforts you are going to put in? If you are clear with your intentions, do not make any wrong moves, Have Hope and wait with  patience to show you deserve to have one more chance. Before that forgive yourself, because you have realized what is your mistake and ready to correct yourself, Now is the time to prove it in action. Don’t try to force yourself into B’s space Focus on implementing your learning in all other Relationships you have. You may or may not get back into normal relationship with B again, But you will never lose any other Relationship again. If you are really sorry, Respect B’s feelings and Decision and give the freedom to B to decide whether B wants to give one more chance to the Relationship or not?

As ‘B’ you should figure out, you want to end the Relationship right away forever or just want to wait whether A is going to take any wrong decision again? If you want to End the Relationship, Don’t wait or hide. You don’t want it means you don’t. why to think of other people, instead of pretending normal in front of others. End the Relationship openly in front of all. If you want to wait and see, that means you have already forgiven A, you just need a proof that this time you are not going to be hurt again. Forgiving takes out biggest burden on your shoulders.

We all know, every relationship is important and valuable. It takes years to build and maintain. Sometimes few mistakes can easily break any relationship. If the relationship is so weak, it wouldn’t have deserved this much of discussion. If it is based on Truth and Honesty, It will sustain no matter How worse the fights are?

If you say “I am Sorry” again mean it so truly that you never need to say it again. If you forgive someone even after the biggest mistakes, make sure, you never lose that Relationship.